Date: 2011-04-07 08:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kiera81487.livejournal.com
Sorry if this seems forward, but I'm working on one right now. It's called "Unexpectations". Here's the link: Chapter 1... (http://community.livejournal.com/bjfic/2945971.html#cutid1)

Everything pre-513 remains true, but Brian and Justin's lives have adjusted and they're coming to terms with it, with some major twists.

I'm VERY new to posting on LJ, so my fic is the last thing people will think of. I'm proud of it though, and it fits your request. Hope you like it =\

I'll be coming back to add links to any fics I find.

Date: 2011-04-10 10:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vlredreign.livejournal.com
This might seem odd, but when rec'ing mpreg, you should warn the person. Just as a courtesy, the same way you would BDSM or graphic violence fics.

Date: 2011-04-11 03:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kiera81487.livejournal.com
You're reply is definitely odd.

The request welcomed AU. Get over your mpreg bias. The fic has clear extra tags in the intro—that's as "courteous" as it gets. I broke no rules.

Btw, the chapter in the link I posted has zero mpreg. The tag is for future chapters, and, even then, I don't write graphic mpreg.

Now I get why so many people can't stand this comm—your approach comes off pretentiously "nitpicky". Don't message me, but feel free to ban me if you like. QAF lives on through us all.

Date: 2011-04-11 03:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vlredreign.livejournal.com
Whoa, excuse me?

AU doesn't necessarily mean mpreg. And usually when people rec it here, they warn for it, same as they do for the other things I mentioned. I wasn't being nit-picky, sorry you feel that way.

Oh, wait...you're the person that PM'd me to ask about mpreg, and then didn't like the HONEST answer I gave you? Ah.

I didn't even notice that until you went all 5150 on me. You are not the only mpreg writer around here, you know. And I don't think any of them has ever come at me like you just did. God, calm down!

I and the other mods don't ban for people being bitchy. We ban for people starting shit for no reason. Therefore, I'm not banning you.

Date: 2011-04-11 05:13 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kiera81487.livejournal.com
You're excused.

I'll never be embarassed about calling out discrimination. More people need to do that. My private message voiced a concern, and you HONESTLY proved you are closed minded. I only speak for myself, so mentioning other authors' reactions to you, in the past, is irrelevant here.

You use bullying tactics to enforce false authority. I get that you have a "rough edge", but hope you learn more productive moderating techniques.

I've said my peace (piece?), and will be returning to the real world now. You have my permission to milk this, and make me into the bad guy though. Please use a separate thread, so I don't keep getting the notifications.

Hope you like my fic...

Date: 2011-04-11 06:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vlredreign.livejournal.com
Okay, I'm gonna guess that since you say you're new to posting to LJ, you don't know what I'm saying. So I'll explain it again.

When people rec fics in this comm, and the poster doesn't ask specifically for mpreg, fandom courtest is that you warn for it.

I am not close-minded about mpreg. In fact, I've read several. Just not in this fandom. But lots of people do. But usually, they ask for it. If they don't, and you rec it, let them know what you're rec'ing.

Bullying...you know, I really, REALLY take offense to that. People are bullied everyday for things, and this isn't even CLOSE to bullying. You didn't like it that I asked you to warn. That's not bullying. NOTHING I said to you even comes close to that. False authority? What is that even? I don't even know how to address that.

I'm not milking this, as you call it. I don't have to. There was nothing wrong with what I said, and I find it very suspicious that you jumped on this in the manner that you did. Sounds almost familiar, in fact. No matter. I think that I've been as polite as I possibly could, even while being called a "bully" and that I'm "rough around the edges". that's fine. I'm blunt, I'll admit. I don't have the time or the patience to be anything else.
Edited Date: 2011-04-11 03:17 pm (UTC)

Date: 2011-04-11 01:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chrisyeap.livejournal.com
I’m not a mod but am a long time member of this comm. This is my sand box and I still play in it every once in a while. So I have issues when someone comes into my sand box and shits in it.

The point of the matter is the mod made a simple request of COURTESY – to warn of mpreg. She would have made the same request of BDSM/rape/violence etc. Telling the mod of the comm that you have visited to “Get over your mpreg bias” is equivalent to shitting in her sand box and telling her “Get over it”. Now who’s the bully?

Here’s the thing. First you say you are someone who is “VERY new” to LJ and hence to this comm. In the next breath you say “so many people can’t stand this comm.” So like a petulant child who sees a new toy but is told she can’t have it and she whines “It stinks anyway”.

The mod doesn’t need to make anyone a bad guy. There are NO bad guys. These comms are made up of people who play nice in the community sand box and then there are the petulant children who feel an entitlement that they don’t have – that everyone in the sand box needs to play by their rules and give them attention. In the real world, these children get time outs and are made to sit in the corner.

From someone ‘old’ in this community and fandom to someone VERY new: PLAY NICE! These comms are all about “TEH LOVE” the QAF family is all about love and acceptance.

Date: 2011-04-11 09:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chrisyeap.livejournal.com
i write ALL that after being away for so long and all you say is "I love that icon!" *pout*

LOL! it's alright Red patted me on the head already

Date: 2011-04-11 10:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sidhe-arien.livejournal.com
*pets*

Sorry, but I get distracted by teh Adam easily! *nods* Ask Red, lol.

YOU ARE MADE OF AWESOME!!!

How's that? *grins*

Date: 2011-04-11 11:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chrisyeap.livejournal.com
totally awesome! {{hugs}}

Date: 2011-04-11 11:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chrisyeap.livejournal.com
and yes - Adam - totally distracting!
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Date: 2011-04-11 09:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chrisyeap.livejournal.com
oops - sorry for the wank!

Date: 2011-04-11 10:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vlredreign.livejournal.com
You didn't wank. You were being a concerned comm member. <3333

Date: 2011-04-11 11:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] court1429.livejournal.com
Oh, shit, no! That was not a response to you AT ALL! I'm going to repost it properly. Your comment was spot-on. *smishes you*

Date: 2011-04-11 11:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chrisyeap.livejournal.com
No it wasn't a response to me - i was revisiting this post and responded to you.
*smishes back*

Date: 2011-04-11 11:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] court1429.livejournal.com
In case I posted my comment incorrectly earlier, I am re-replying.

For a comm that we have always bragged about being wank-free, welcoming, friendly, and an awesome place to hang out in, we have sure had a fucking rash of shit-stirring in the past few weeks and, quite frankly, you're adding to a glut that nobody wants to see repeated.

I find it very curious that you immediately attack another community member (mod or not) for passing along a hint about it being helpful to warn for certain topics, whether mpreg or rape or whatever as a consideration for your fellow members, and then head right into "Now I get why so many people can't stand this comm." As I said above: shit-stirring.

It's also curious that you self-righteously proclaim yourself a defender who calls out discrimination when in your LJ post from December of last year, you refer to your boss' husband as a "real retard" for not "doing as I say." Perhaps you might tidy up your own house before criticizing others.

And c'mon, get real. You can't really balance a *preference* to know if a fic is about a topic you don't want to read (or that might be triggering) with discrimination. That's just ridiculous.

And I will remind you that, as stated in the Rules, there is no bias in this community against searching for or recommending mpreg fics or any other genre. ALL searches and recommendations are welcome.

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