Hunter makes t-shirts, Ben leaves Michael?

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Hi,
I'm looking for a fic a read a while ago where Mel and Ben talk about what it's like loving people who love Brian and then Hunter joins the conversation. Later at Debbie's, Hunter (and possibly Ben and Mel) wears a t-shirt with letters that stand for something like "Assholes who love assholes who love the asshole" or something like that.
I think that Ben leaves Michael after this dinner because Michael complains about Brian paying for Hunters college fund or Hunter applying to college at all?

Anyway, does anyone recognize this story? I might have mixed two stories but I really want to find it.

Thanks in advance,
Tessan91

Found! It's "Left Behind" by bec2224. Links in the comments. Thanks to moonflowerkc for the fast response :)