No need to be sorry, hon, and I truly hope you did not feel attacked in any way! People have a lot of feelings about those books, and a discussion was sparked, which I think is good :) Although all the replies (not containing recs) were probably a bit annoying for you, lol. There was nothing wrong with your request. If you were looking for fics truer to the bdsm lifestyle, that's especially awesome, and I hope somewhere in all this we helped you find some.